When people talk about relationships, they often focus on compatibility. Are we aligned? Do we communicate well? Do we want the same things? But after working with thousands of couples, and as reinforced in a powerful conversation between Mel Robbins and James Sexton , here’s a deeper truth: The success of your relationship isn’t just about who you choose. It ’s about how you show up. And that doesn’t stop when a marriage ends. The way you approach your divorce will shape th