Have you seen the commercials for the new TV show on ABC? It’s called “Splitting Up Together,” and the premise is a couple who decides to end their marriage, but continue living in the same house for the sake of the kids. While this is certainly not a scenario that I am advocating, the bigger message is what’s important. When divorcing, both sides should be prepared to do things that they might not feel totally comfortable with, but are necessary because the needs of the ch